When I began repairing band instruments, I was hugely fortunate to have a great mentor. He was a wonderful gentleman named Larry Ackerman.
Larry brought me more than just the mechanical aspects of his craft; he had solid concepts and philosophies behind the work also. The thinking behind the doing is important. Regardless of what we are trying to develop (for our work or personal life), there should be a solid “why” behind every “what” and “how”.
Larry’s “why’s” became some of my “why’s” and these are still infused in my work decades later. They can be heard in my teaching of the work too.
I am forever grateful for Larry and what he brought to me. I think Larry got something out of mentoring me as well. The mentor often does and should. Sharing the knowledge and helping someone make progress brings clarity and purpose to the one that is mentoring.
I know this from mentoring people who are trying to grow their businesses through the EO Accelerator Program. I find that I learn a tremendous amount by helping these entrepreneurs. Beyond serving others, I get much out of this work by honing my thoughts and “tools” when sharing them. And it is big fun to watch others grow because of my contributions.
A true mentor goes way beyond teaching the subject. They bring not just their knowledge but also wisdom and experience. And they often bring accountability. Mentors are committed to you as a person; they are committed to your success and accomplishments. A mentor will see you through and will continually influence you down a successful path.
In my view, there is not a mentor without a mentee. It’s a two-party relationship that is supported by mutual respect, interest, and willingness. It often leads to joint admiration.
I do advise people to take full advantage of opportunities to learn from others that have been down similar roads to the ones they’ve chosen. It will move them further and faster than trying to grow in a silo.
My observation is that there are not enough mentorship opportunities in our industry. I encourage all of us who are able, to step in and take someone under a wing. It will be endlessly rewarding.
Jeff